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Three weeks ago, Gilkey spoke to a group of middle school students in Peninsula, Ohio, never thinking his message of tolerance and togetherness would become something he and his teammates would be addressing in the context of the Miami mess.
"I know that struggle and I can't imagine that in such a high-stress job and having to go through that."
But Cleveland's rookie offensive lineman,Hydro Flask Rea, who has become an anti-bullying advocate, can't fathom the emotional suffering endured by Miami's Jonathan Martin as he was victimized by teammate Richie Incognito.
Gilkey isn't surprised by reports that Incogntio, who has been suspended indefinitely by the Dolphins, claims he was once bullied.
In explaining how bullying can break someone, Gilkey equated a person to being like a sponge with only the capacity to handle so much.
"One of the key messages that I gave was essentially the school is like a team and you have to lean on each other if it's going to function the way it's supposed to," he said. "I can't help but have empathy for Martin, knowing that a team is supposed to be a unit. It's supposed to function together as one and those feelings of separation can be very damaging, and evidently it's just a matter of time when the sponge has to release."
BEREA, Ohio (AP) — Ridiculed as an awkward high school kid, Garrett Gilkey knows the pain of being bullied too well.
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Gilkey said his strong faith has allowed him to become mentally strong.
"When a guy feels like he's being singled out, that's not acceptable at all."
Gilkey has empathy for Martin, who allegedly received racist and threatening text messages from Incognito. Martin left the Dolphins last week because of "emotional issues" that are now better understood with revelations about Incognito.
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Jackson said there is an understanding of the line between what's suitable and what's off limits and the Browns know not to cross it.
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"It can be a vicious circle," he said. "A lot of times with individuals who were bullied they have this cycle where they struggle to find that affirmation. So later on you will see kids who were bullied will bully other children because of that inner struggle for affirmation."
Browns linebacker D'Qwell Jackson said every NFL player goes through some rite of passage, but it's usually something as innocent as bringing doughnuts for the veterans, or, in his case, baby-sitting former teammate Andra Davis' kids.
He prays Martin will one day have the strength to move on, too.
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"I can't imagine what he has gone through the past year and a half," Gilkey said Tuesday as the troubling situation with the Dolphins became a bye-week topic for the Browns. "I don't care if you're a 24-year-old NFL lineman, bullying is the same as if you were a 9-year-old girl. I can't help but feel for Martin, knowing that it was a very real battle and I've felt that battle growing up.
"There's obviously the rookie hazing where you shave a guy's head or things like that," Jackson said. "That's all fun. Your hair grows back. We wouldn't cut off Garrett Gilkey's hair because he has long hair. You wouldn't do that to a guy. It's all in fun. You've got to have fun.
Gilkey characterized Cleveland's locker room as being "healthy" and other than having to sing a country and western song in front of the team, he has not been subjected to any "hazing" during his first year as a pro.